To Understand Consent, You Must First Understand Empathy

“I got chills they’re multiplyingAnd I’m losing control‘Cause the power you’re supplyingIt’s electrifying (it’s electrifying).” -John Travolta as Danny Zuko, Grease I love gadgets, and I love pens, so when I got the box in advance from the folks at Kink Crate and saw this electric pen, I was stoked. Electricity play (aka: electrosex) is…

Content Warning: This piece contains a graphic description of a rape and the emotional aftermath of that sexual assault.  I remember much of that night very well. I was 17 years old, a college freshman, and there was a party in my apartment… …continue reading this piece over at Elephant Journal by clicking >>>> HERE <<<< …

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…. Angel Kalafatis, a sex educator and Program Support Specialist at UNF’s LGBT Center, couldn’t bag up condoms fast enough, as volunteers passed them out to the throngs of waiting students. She said she’s passed out more than 12,000 in the last two days alone.  To Keep Reading please visit WJCT Jax. 

“…Folks watch and read erotica for myriad reasons, many of which are rooted in the ways that erotica conjures up and facilitates our fantasies. If a reader wants to imagine themselves (or someone else) in a hot threesome, a kinky dungeon scene, a romantic first sexual encounter, or being carried away to the bottom of…

“You’re into what you’re into, I’m into what I’m into. We don’t have to be into the same shit, and if you’re safe, sane, and happy, then go on and get you some.”  ― Matt Fraction, Sex Criminals, Vol. 3: Three the Hard Way Y’all! There is a shocking number of kink, fetish, and BDSM cons…