“No” is a complete sentence (PODCAST APPEARANCE – Don’t waste your pretty)

If you’re a Kink Crate subscriber, then when you opened your Crate this month you noticed it, peeking up at you from the pretty packaging, a glass butt plug. Congratulations! You’re in for a very good time indeed. (If you’re not a Kink Crate subscriber yet, sign up HERE.) Whether you’re a prostate pleasing pro or an…

“I got chills they’re multiplyingAnd I’m losing control‘Cause the power you’re supplyingIt’s electrifying (it’s electrifying).” -John Travolta as Danny Zuko, Grease I love gadgets, and I love pens, so when I got the box in advance from the folks at Kink Crate and saw this electric pen, I was stoked. Electricity play (aka: electrosex) is…

One of the number one reasons that people don’t use safer sex barriers is that they simply didn’t have them when they needed them. Sometimes folks assume the other person will have what they need, and some folks are hesitant to keep barriers and other things they might need on hand because of the stigma…

BDSM 101 – a brief glossary.*  It’s almost impossible to do a “101” on something as complicated as BDSM. BDSM is nuanced and varied and there almost as many ways to practice it as there are people who want to. Please know that is will barely scratch the surface and is in NO WAY all…

February 1, 2020 is the First Annual Measure a Penis Day! Measure a Penis Day is brought to us by the folks over at ONE Condoms® and myONE® Custom Fit Condoms.* Does Size Matter?  We know that the size of a person’s penis doesn’t determine how good they’ll be in bed or how good sexual…

One of the most common pieces of advice you’ll hear from folks in polyamorous communities is this: A key to successful polyamorous relationships is not “never being jealous,” but rather owning your emotions, taking responsibility for them, and being committed to working through them. We spend a lot of time, and rightly so, talking about…