Behind the Scenes: Making of Sex from A to Z (video)

One of the most common reasons that new clients reach out to me is because they want to “spice up” their sex life. They’ve been “together for a while” and the “magic is starting to fade.” They want to know if I can teach them any tricks for reigniting that spark. And, while I can…

So, you’ve got your partner all tied up with nowhere to go. They’re waiting there, willing and able, at the mercy of your every whim. So… now what? Why not spend a little time on the edge? I’m not talking about Edge Play this time (we can talk about that later) – I’m talking about…

Another major gap in sex ed content is any mention of pleasure. This gap is no accident. Often, standards around sexual health education expressly prohibit any content that even hints and sexual pleasure. For example, many pre-teen and teen sex educators are tasked with discussing condoms, barriers, and birth control with their students. These same…

“You’re into what you’re into, I’m into what I’m into. We don’t have to be into the same shit, and if you’re safe, sane, and happy, then go on and get you some.”  ― Matt Fraction, Sex Criminals, Vol. 3: Three the Hard Way Y’all! There is a shocking number of kink, fetish, and BDSM cons…

I initially wrote this piece in October for the Kink Crate handbook. October is cause for several awesome celebrations. One of my favorites (besides Halloween, obviously) is Kink Awareness Month (started by Stockroom.com in 2012). Most awareness campaigns are part of larger harm reduction model, the goal of which is to demystify (and thereby destigmatize)…

(This originally appeared in the The Professor Sex Edition of Kink Crate in Jan 2019) “Those aren’t tentacles! They’re gentacles!” — Leela, Futurama: The Beast with a Billion Backs When the folks at Kink Crate said they wanted to do a Professor Sex box I was excited. Being a giddy child professional adult, when they said they wanted…