IF S(S)OE – A model for consent.* 06/15/2018 IF SOE – A model for consent. Consent is a top – if not THE top – priority in lifestyle, BDSM, and fetish communities. In sex and play that often roleplays a very clear power dynamic and can include force, physical harm, and emotional anguish, consent is what separates rough sex and fetish from assault and abuse. If you’ve been in the community for any length of time you may have heard of SSC (Safe, Sane, Consensual), RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink), CCC (Committed Compassionate Consent),
IF SOE – A model for consent. Consent is a top – if not THE top – priority in lifestyle, BDSM, and fetish communities. In sex and play that often roleplays a very clear power dynamic and can include force, physical harm, and emotional anguish, consent is what separates rough sex and fetish from assault and abuse. If you’ve been in the community for any length of time you may have heard of SSC (Safe, Sane, Consensual), RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink), CCC (Committed Compassionate Consent),
Playing with a full deck: A game of Dominance and submission* 05/15/2018 Playing with a full deck: A game of Dominance and submission* I’m going to share a personal story with you. I have a good friend, fellow educator, and former sweetie named Sterling Bates. Sterling and I met when we were both teaching at a polyamory conference and, for a while afterwards we had a long-distance relationship that included a D/s dynamic. Long-distance relationships have some obvious drawbacks – not seeing each other regularly being probably the worst of it. However, because you
Playing with a full deck: A game of Dominance and submission* I’m going to share a personal story with you. I have a good friend, fellow educator, and former sweetie named Sterling Bates. Sterling and I met when we were both teaching at a polyamory conference and, for a while afterwards we had a long-distance relationship that included a D/s dynamic. Long-distance relationships have some obvious drawbacks – not seeing each other regularly being probably the worst of it. However, because you
Bottom’s Up! Exploring Anal Play Beyond Penetration* 04/15/2018 Bottom’s Up! Exploring Anal Play Beyond Penetration. In this month’s* Kink Crate you have some really beautiful tails!! These fun toys can help bring some imagination and creativity to your playtime! Before you get your precious little bunny booty all stuffed and fluffed, though, why not take advantage of the opportunity to expand your foreplay and savor the all the sensational goodness of anal play?! If you’ve ever watched porn that features anal sex, more often than not it looks like
Bottom’s Up! Exploring Anal Play Beyond Penetration. In this month’s* Kink Crate you have some really beautiful tails!! These fun toys can help bring some imagination and creativity to your playtime! Before you get your precious little bunny booty all stuffed and fluffed, though, why not take advantage of the opportunity to expand your foreplay and savor the all the sensational goodness of anal play?! If you’ve ever watched porn that features anal sex, more often than not it looks like